Why this happened to me?
Why I am feeling weird around somebody?
Why something irritates me?
When we do not get response from the universe according to our wish, we start blaming circumstances or people around for it.
Many people say it was their destiny or The god wants this for them.
“I do not believe in luck or destiny but I strongly believe that there is a cause behind every happening.”
We win or lose, meet several people, face many challenges in our lifetime.
“Identify the ‘Why’ behind every ‘Is’ & unveil lots of opportunities floating within universe.”
The day when we’ll understand this, A new world full of hopes, believe and dreams will embrace us.
In the post Do it yourself it is said,
“IF LIFE IS MADE TO BE RUINED, DO NOT GIVE OTHERS OR CIRCUMSTANCES A CHANCE TO, DO IT YOURSELF.”
It is not just an attitude but also a key to success in life.
‘Do it yourself’ mindset makes you feel more confident and reduces the tendency of dependency on others for the accomplishment of many important tasks.
“Start everything with Do it yourself mindset. You’ll never face failure in your life.”
Life is made to experience and explore every new thing. Keep learning new tasks, processes and activities.
How do you deal with criticism when someone taunts you for mistakes or criticizes your actions, habits or thoughts?
Basically, we have three options to face the criticism:-
- Accept it
- Justify it, or
- Deny it
I think they all work and have enough potential to shut the mouth of critics.
Accept it: When you are not ready for a long fight. You decided to remain silent or just said, “yes, I have or I did.” with full confidence.
Justify it: When you think it is needed to justify your actions and thoughts. You have logics to prove yourself right.
Deny it: Simply with the thought of being always right. “I do not need your concern.” “Let me decide my next move.” “That’s not your business.” etc.
But one thing that matters a lot in every situation is your ‘Attitude’. It is a powerful tool to strengthen your all weaknesses.
When you feel empowered you can beat any problem, face any criticism and win in any situation.