Way to your way (Revisited)

In my post Way to your way , I wrote that you have to create your own way to fulfill your dreams. The best way is which straightly comes from your heart and ends at your dream.

But how?

(For traditional occupations)

Now, you have two choice:-

1) Create a totally new way,

2) break/modify the existing way

1) Completely new way:-When you have great knowledge of recent trends and future demands. You are ready to take risks, stand alone and have full confidence on your vision.

2) Break/modify the existing way:- When you know the existing method of working is not enough or you aren’t comfortable with it. You want to make it more easier and convenience.

(For art or talent based career)

Here, you can do the same as mentioned above but you should be more careful If you want to be an artist because you have to engage with more people.

  • Practice. This is the key to make yourself better in the desired field.
  • Social circle. You should meet more people, should have a charismatic personality and communication.
  • Attitude. Act as you have done and achieved more than people think.

At the end, I must want to say that nobody will consider you capable or successful unless you call yourself.

Struggle:-

If you think you’ll call yourself successful after winning all the struggles, then you are wrong. It will remain with you lifetime and you have to fight with it to secure your achievements.

Hence, work for self- development and improve yourself for self betterment.

Thank you.

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Never give up/ Give up instantly

We often listen the quote Never give up. Many people say that giving up shouldn’t be an option in life. You must keep trying until you succeed.

Is this equitable for everyone in every situation?

What if you are chasing something wrong or it is not good for you at all? Would you still do that?

Give up instantly also has its value in our life. There are many things we do or choose but later we change our opinion about them. In such cases, we can’t keep holding our decisions.

How to decide between?

Don’t give up; If

  • It is good for you and all.
  • You & only your efforts can make it happen for you.
  • It motivates you to work hard to get more.
  • It enhances your knowledge, skills and experience.
  • It really makes you feel happy and satisfied.

Give up instantly; If

  • It is dangerous, harmful or against law.
  • It makes you feel shameful or guilty.
  • You feel this is not for you or you are at the wrong.
  • It interrupts the development and crucial changes within you & your life.
  • You need support or approval of others at your every step for next move.

Just remember, life is more than the few words written or said by others, you have your own wisdom to decide.

Thank you!