A lot of challenges, enemies, rivals and difficulties we have to face In the battle of life.
It is not difficult to fight but it is very hard to identify your enemies.
One of the strongest enemy of you is your own negative thoughts.it may be your sadness of failure, grief of broken heart, addiction of being unnecessarily thoughtful,greed of getting more, fear of something unexpected, regret of past, intention of revenge etc.
“A strong vicious rival of humans are those evils that impel them to think or do bad.”
Being thoughtful is good but your thoughts should be positive, creative and attentive.
If you feel that your thoughts are going wrong then stop thinking and start doing your work. You can listen music, paint your canvas or arrange your stuff for taking a break.
Think good, be better.
Communication is a core element of human life. You can’t stay without saying anything for a long time. Selection of words and the way you represent your thoughts is also a subject of consideration.
It becomes more difficult how to take a stand against your opponents generously.
You can win others if you choose your words intellectually.
“Be expressive with your words but not aggressive.”
“Magic is not for all, but magical words. They can vanish your opposers immediately.”
Not only words, your way of talking is also more important. For example-It depends on you how to introduce your grandmother
- “She is my grandma.” Or
- “She is the mother of my father.”
That is totally your choice. Be kind, humble, right and logical. Oppose others in a way like
- You’re right but….
- I can do it…. Only
- It may be…. By mistake.
First of all, listen them carefully then give your reaction accordingly.
Success- everyone has crave for success. The meaning of success is different from person to person.
Stress of getting success makes them depressed. Because people only focus on their long term goal or ultimate target. Hence, this is a main reason of sadness.
Here is a simple trick to enjoy your life. Give yourself everyday at least one reason to be happy.
It would be quite easy if you set many small targets in your life and Associate them with your ultimate goal.
“Break your difficult aim into some easily achievable goals to get more opportunity of being glad.”
You can set your monthly goals.If you do this, it will be very beneficial.
- You will feel less stressed.
- You will get more opportunities to be happy.
- You will be more confident.
- You will feel more satisfied.
- Your aim would be simply very closer to you.
So, be relaxed and enjoy your small achievements.
Ups and downs are the integral part of life. It is said ‘life is not a bed of roses’ that is probably right.
Life is not easy but only a positive attitude towards it can solve your many problems.
Your dreams would be definitely true if
- You believe in ‘everything is possible.’
- You know the value of time and hard work.
Your decision making would be easy if
- You know your interests and abilities.
- Your goals and motives are well defined.
It would be very easy to make money if
- You choose a legal and right path.
- You Know how to use your talent.
- You keep exploring new ways of earning.
Always try to make your life easy and happy. Make yourself exempt from the burden of unnecessary expectations, traditions and rituals.
” If this world is not made for you, exempt yourself and create your own world.”
Your life would be very easy if
- You know the importance of saying ‘no’.
- You have been accepted that others have their own mind and opinion.
It would be very easy to create your own world if
- You are self-independent.
- The ultimate goal of your life is only ‘satisfaction’.
So, enjoy your madness and weirdness. Be what you want to be. Just remember ‘everything is possible.”
Let’s create a beautiful world. A world full of happiness, love and good human beings.
“We don’t inherit the earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children.”
I like these lines too much. Creating a beautiful world seems very difficult. But it is quite simple and easy.
You can’t change others but can change yourself. Fill yourself with positivity and goodness.
“Heart cherished by goodness has worth like diamonds-valuable and attractive.”
First of all, make your heart merciful. Be the one that you expect from other people.
I bet, if you are good then you’ll find every person generous and helpful even in arduous situations.
Work for own satisfaction not for hurting or disgracing others.
( A small positive step always lasts forever, only a single candle is enough to remove intense dark.)
“Truth is bitter” why this is said, I don’t know. Yes, sometimes it may be bitter but not always. In fact, some truths in our life are very awesome.
I think nowdays not truth but trust has became bitter. Trust on someone is very difficult and risky.
Trust become stronger when it takes time for blossom. It makes life beautiful and provides you an inner strength.
” Trust is bitter with wrong person, but with right one it would definitely be sweeter.”
“Trust on someone is a matter of choice, but can be a reason of pain or rejoice.”
Trust everyone, but not blindly until you make sure that other person is right.
Don’t trust easily but you have to pretend like you trust everyone. You can examine your trust by many ways.
Never lose your relationship because of your suspicion. Take right decisions at the right time. You can lose or get a person but it would be better for your life.
Perfection- what is the exact definition of perfection?
I don’t know. But it is different for all. Unfortunately, everyone seeks perfection in others while they are not perfect themselves.
Nobody can be perfectly perfect. This is a universal truth but not accepted by all.
Your imperfections make you different from others. You can attempt to do better and it must be done. But never lose your confidence because of them.
” Perfection seeks appreciation but imperfection only acceptation.”
You need other’s remark to be perfect but you don’t need other’s opinion for your imperfection, you know them all.
Stop being perfect for the standards decided by others. They haven’t been made for you.Talent and capacity of every person is different.
Being imperfect is not much bad. It may be a new invention, new way to complete your task.
Engage your mind in creating a positive world. Stop blaming others for their imperfection you also one of them.
Be happy with yourself.