How easy is this to say:-
“forget the past & move forward.”
“Leave the past, think about the next.”
This is really difficult to forget some bitter incidents and experiences in life. We know this has been happened and we can’t change it.
We try hard to move forward in life but something pulls us back.
Normally, human takes more time to forget such awful memories because of:-
2) Obstinate mindset
3) Resist of change
Human feel insecure after facing contradictory situations. They have fear of taking wrong decisions as they took in the past. They don’t want to face such difficulties again. This fear prevents them from moving forward.
Obstinate mindset :-
When people hardly accept their mistakes and the outcome of their actions. Such people prefer to blame others and circumstances instead of moving forward. They keep focus on justifying their acts.
Resist of change :-
Many unexpected things come from the changes. People mostly fail to understand the reasons behind occurrences. They take time to grasp everything.
However, The tendency of understanding this is different for every person. Everyone has ability to come out from difficulties and challenges.
Confidence, self-trust and positive attitude will surely give you power to move forward.
In my post Way to your way , I wrote that you have to create your own you way to fulfill your dreams.
They best way is that straightly comes from your heart and ends at your dream.
(For traditional occupations)
Now, you have two choice:-
1) Create a totally new way,
2) break/modify the existing way
1) Completely new way:-When you have great knowledge of recent trends and future demands. You are ready to take risks, stand alone and have full confidence on your vision.
2) Break/modify the existing way:- When you know the existing method of working is not enough or you aren’t comfortable with it. You want to make it more easier and convenience.
(For art or talent based career)
Here, you can do the same as mentioned above but you should be more careful If you want to be an artist because you have to engage with more people.
- Practice. This is the key to make yourself better in the desired field.
- Social circle. You should meet more people, should have a charismatic personality and communication.
- Attitude. Act as you have done and achieved more than people think.
At the end, I must want to say that nobody will consider you capable or successful unless you call yourself.
If you think you’ll call yourself successful after winning all the struggles, then you are wrong. It will remain with you lifetime and you have to fight with it to secure your achievements.
Hence, work for self- development and improve yourself for self betterment.
No, not possible don’t ever this say
keep trying to find out your own way.
Standing between reality and dreams you many time feel that they are too difficult to achieve.
Yeah, not so easy.
It is not hard to make your dreams true, hard is to take an initiative towards your dreams.
This first step towards your success has a lot of risk and uncertainty.
You know many ways to reach at your dreams, but you have to take the way that straightly comes from your heart and ends at your dream.
An ambitious person creates his own way, a new way to make dreams true.
Such type of people give inspiration to others.
No matter on which way you are riding, but it is best if it ends on your dream.
Always keep dreaming.