In the post Do it yourself it is said,
“IF LIFE IS MADE TO BE RUINED, DO NOT GIVE OTHERS OR CIRCUMSTANCES A CHANCE TO, DO IT YOURSELF.”
It is not just an attitude but also a key to success in life.
‘Do it yourself’ mindset makes you feel more confident and reduces the tendency of dependency on others for the accomplishment of many important tasks.
“Start everything with Do it yourself mindset. You’ll never face failure in your life.”
Life is made to experience and explore every new thing. Keep learning new tasks, processes and activities.
“This work is very risky.”
“Think again before start.”
“Possibility of loss.”
“Can’t do it.”
“Nobody ever did this.”
“May god help you.”
How many times we face such situations in our life?
A step full of courage and a totally different life…
But we do not want to come out from the safe zone, because we have own fears & insecurities.
What if… at least I have…
If you do, there is a possibility but if you don’t do you’ll surely lose something. One day you will blame the God, people or situations for it.
“If life is made to be ruined, do not give others or circumstances a chance to, do it yourself.”
Its pleasure will be something else.
Yes, I did… This was my choice… My way…
“Once time risk is far better than lifetime repent.”
Try… Do… Build it… lose it… with the attitude:-
“I did it myself.”
“It was absolutely my choice.”
“I am responsible for…”
The sorrow of not trying is greater than losing without try.
How do you deal with criticism when someone taunts you for mistakes or criticizes your actions, habits or thoughts?
Basically, we have three options to face the criticism:-
- Accept it
- Justify it, or
- Deny it
I think they all work and have enough potential to shut the mouth of critics.
Accept it: When you are not ready for a long fight. You decided to remain silent or just said, “yes, I have or I did.” with full confidence.
Justify it: When you think it is needed to justify your actions and thoughts. You have logics to prove yourself right.
Deny it: Simply with the thought of being always right. “I do not need your concern.” “Let me decide my next move.” “That’s not your business.” etc.
But one thing that matters a lot in every situation is your ‘Attitude’. It is a powerful tool to strengthen your all weaknesses.
When you feel empowered you can beat any problem, face any criticism and win in any situation.