How do you deal with criticism when someone taunts you for mistakes or criticizes your actions, habits or thoughts?
Basically, we have three options to face the criticism:-
- Accept it
- Justify it, or
- Deny it
I think they all work and have enough potential to shut the mouth of critics.
Accept it: When you are not ready for a long fight. You decided to remain silent or just said, “yes, I have or I did.” with full confidence.
Justify it: When you think it is needed to justify your actions and thoughts. You have logics to prove yourself right.
Deny it: Simply with the thought of being always right. “I do not need your concern.” “Let me decide my next move.” “That’s not your business.” etc.
But one thing that matters a lot in every situation is your ‘Attitude’. It is a powerful tool to strengthen your all weaknesses.
When you feel empowered you can beat any problem, face any criticism and win in any situation.
Our life revolves around few people, needs and wishes. It is difficult to say which one is most important to us.
Why do we need a companion?
* To interact
* To share thoughts/feelings
* To get help/assistance/guidance
* To live with/for
* To be happy/encouraged/blissful
& Many more reasons… yes, surely we need someone/somebody/something to make our life easy and meaningful.
“Nobody remains alone for lifetime, we all live with our dreams, desires and determinations.”
We need a companion for these or these all for companion. We need silence to assemble thoughts, darkness to relax, shadow to get relief from sunlight & sunlight to remove darkness.
(Loneliness in itself is a companion for many people.)
So, do not consider yourself lonely, you just need to identify your best companion.