We often listen the quote Never give up. Many people say that giving up shouldn’t be an option in life. You must keep trying until you succeed.

Is this equitable for everyone in every situation?

What if you are chasing something wrong or it is not good for you at all? Would you still do that?

Give up instantly also has its value in our life. There are many things we do or choose but later we change our opinion about them. In such cases, we can’t keep holding our decisions.

How to decide between?

Don’t give up; If

  • It is good for you and all.
  • You & only your efforts can make it happen for you.
  • It motivates you to work hard to get more.
  • It enhances your knowledge, skills and experience.
  • It really makes you feel happy and satisfied.

Give up instantly; If

  • It is dangerous, harmful or against law.
  • It makes you feel shameful or guilty.
  • You feel this is not for you or you are at the wrong.
  • It interrupts the development and crucial changes within you & your life.
  • You need support or approval of others at your every step for next move.

Just remember, life is more than the few words written or said by others, you have your own wisdom to decide.

Thank you!

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82 thoughts on “Never give up/ Give up instantly

  1. Enjoyed your post very much.

    No matter what our age, we humans tend to go through situations requiring thought and reflections such as your post provides at one point or another in our lives. Very sound advice. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Oh my gosh. You seriously just solved a major dilemma that I’ve been experiencing for a long time in such a sweet and simple way. Thank you. Seriously, I have a habit of having so many things I like to do that I have a hard time knowing which things I need to keep doing and which things I need to stop doing. And this really summed up an easy solution. Thank you 😊

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  3. We quite often back out of something because we think doing that would mean failure for us, and we would lose. However, we don’t realize how toxic the situation becomes if we let our ego speak and not our minds. Beautiful post…
    And I really liked the featured images. It’s my first time visiting your blog and I really liked it. Thanx for the like, it resulted in me finding you 🙂

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  4. I wish someone had told me this when I was younger. I was always taught loyalty, faithfulness, and tenacity were synonymous with “good moral character,” and I couldn’t give up or I was garbage.

    So much of our society places far too much value on only the first option –never give up– and we label people who might give up for healthy reasons. We only see they’re fickle, or faithless, or undisciplined.

    So much of my life would have gone differently if I’d had permission to give up instantly! I need to print this out and keep it where I can see it. Thank you!

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    1. I wish you could understand this at that time. But this is not odd we all have been faced such situations in our life.
      I hope now you’ll never compromise with your happiness.
      Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us.🙂

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