My priority is “myself”

As I always say- respect yourself.

Accept yourself.

Today, I want to add few more things. The most important things are:-

  • Be yourself.
  • Identify yourself.
  • Create yourself.
  • Satisfy yourself.
  • Make happy yourself.

You are the first love of you.
Many people can think that I am suggesting you to be selfish.

Not at all, I do not have such intentions. I just want to say one thing;

Be honest with yourself.

Whatever you are doing, are you really happy with it?

You are doing this because:-

  1. This is your responsibility.
  2. To make others happy.
  3. You have made promise for this.
  4. You have some expectations.

Thinking about other’s happiness is good, but not on the cost of your own happiness and self-respect.

You can make others happy only if you are happy.

Being of yourself is not a matter of selfishness. It is only to live with yourself, for yourself.

Others can’t do for you what you can do for yourself.

Thank you!

Quest of life (poetry)

(Not for perfection seeker)

Life endeavors,

Quest a place,

To survive.

Swirled thoughts,

Stagnanted moments,

Arduous to decide.

Restless comforts,

Delightful lament,

Deceased to revive.

Life endeavors,

Quest a dwelling,

To secure fear.

Tangled desires,

Deceitful shadow,

Anonymous terror.

Echoes of silence,

Serenity among vocalic,

Solitude ensure.

Life endeavors,

Quest a place,

Full of effulgence.

Infinite victory

Problems aren’t a definite sign of failure, But the fear of failure is. Fear is an integral characteristic of human that can’t be eliminated. There are two options:-

  • Live the fear, or
  • Face the fear

We know which one is best option but this is quite difficult for many of us to choose that.


This is our intrinsic feeling that develops with the lack of inner strength. That means we aren’t determined enough or have doubt on our abilities.

In addition to this, we have tendency to lose hope too early. In such situation, we blame others or fate but actually we are just one step away from our victory.

Victorious step:-

Say to yourself,“Get up”.

“I am ready to take any challenge from life. Every time with every problem, I’ll grow more stronger. They have no power to bring me down.”

Not only say, do it. This would bring a significant change in your life.

Thank you!

Rigid vs. Flexible

A proper balance of rigidity and flexibility is needed in life. Be strong on your decisions but you should be open to adopt further changes.

Rigidity makes you feel more stronger, confident and motivated. This is the reflection of your inner strength- how strongly you can deal with the difficulties.

Flexibility, however is not the opposite of stability. This is:-

” I know….. I am sure…… But this is not bad to listen/understand others. This can be much better….”

In simple words, you are ready to learn and embrace new things.


Rigidity:- being stable on your thoughts, perception and decisions.

Flexibility:- being aware of changes & having dare to accept them.

We all have both characteristics but only few of us know how to employ them. People who use both efficiently, they will surely get success in their life.

Thank you!

Neither faith nor fear

“Neither faith nor fear

Where hope exists,

The God is there.”

People usually have faith on or fear of god. We don’t know god personally, never met him, but still believe in his existence.


That comes from our religious beliefs, guidance of elders and the stories we have been listening since childhood.

We pray daily or whenever we need some spiritual guidance.


We feel scared from terrible dreams, unexpected incidents, past actions, and upcoming events.

The fear comes from the concepts of sin, devil, hell and punishment for immoral acts.

“Believe and hope both are crucial for life. Hope is needed to live and believe makes the hope a reason to live.”


For those who believe, hope is an another name of god. We do start every new day with a little hope, live with a hope and wait for a day that will bring something especial.

The God considers about your fear or faith, I don’t know but I am pretty sure If you work with pure dedication and determination, the god will fill your life with his love and blessings.

Thank you!