A lot of challenges, enemies, rivals and difficulties we have to face In the battle of life.It is not difficult to fight but very hard to identify your enemies.
One of the strongest enemy of you is your own negative thoughts. It may be your sadness of failure, grief of broken heart, addiction of being unnecessarily thoughtful, greed of getting more, fear of something unexpected, regret of past, intention of revenge etc.
“The vicious rival of human are those evils that impel them to think or do something wrong.”
Being thoughtful is good but your thoughts should be positive, creative and attentive.
If you feel that your thoughts are going wrong then stop thinking and start doing your work. You can listen music, paint your canvas or arrange your stuff for taking a break.
Think good, be better.
Communication is a core element of human life. You can’t stay without saying anything for a long time. Selection of words and the way you present your thoughts is also a subject of consideration.
It becomes more difficult how to take a stand against your opponents generously.
You can win others if you choose your words wisely.
“Be expressive, not aggressive with the words.”
“Magic is not for all, but magical words. They can vanish your opposers immediately.”
Not only words, your way of talking is also important. For example-It depends on you how to introduce your grandmother
- “She is my grandma.” or
- “She is the mother of my father.”
That is totally your choice. Be kind, humble, righteous and logical. Oppose others in a gentle way like
- You are right but….
- I can do it…. Only
- It may be…. By mistake.
First of all, listen to them patiently then give your reaction accordingly.
Success- everyone has crave for success. The meaning of success changes from person to person.
Stress of getting success makes them depressed because people only focus on their long term goals or on ultimate targets. Hence, this is a main reason of sadness.
Here is a simple trick to enjoy your life. Give yourself at least one reason to be happy daily.
It would be quite easy if you set many small targets in your life and associate them with your ultimate goal.
“Break difficult aim into some easily achievable goals to get more opportunity of success.”
You can set your monthly goals. If you do this, it will be very beneficial.
- You will feel less stressed.
- You will get more opportunities to be happy.
- You will be more confident.
- You will feel more satisfied.
- Your will see your aim very closer.
So, be relaxed and enjoy your small achievements.