“Truth is bitter” why people say this, I don’t know. Yes, sometimes it may be bitter but not always. In fact, some truths make our life joyful and exciting.
I think nowdays not truth but trust has became bitter. Trust on somebody, is very difficult and risky task.
Trust becomes strong when it takes time for blossom. It makes life beautiful and gives you an inner strength.
“Trust is bitter with wrong person, but with the right it will be pleasant.”
“Trust on someone is a matter of choice, but can be a reason of pain or rejoice.”
Trust everyone, but not blindly unless you feel sure that the other person is right to.
Do not trust easily but you can pretend like you trust everyone. You can examine trust through many ways.
Never lose a relationship just because of your suspicion. Take right decisions at the right time. You can lose or get a person but it would be better for your life.
Life is full of moments, memories and experiences. You want to remember or forget few of them but you have to live with all of them.
The outcome of your actions affects you and your life. People often take wrong or unexpected decisions in such situations.
Actually, this is just a moment in which they decide.
A moment of weakness :-
When you think, “nothing is left in life”, “I have lost everything”, “no hope at all”.
Standing on the height to jump. Closed eyes. Ready to take first & last step, At the edge…
A moment for strength:-
You need a moment for strength to think, “this is not the wrost thing”, “no end at all”, “every problem has a solution”, “never give up” etc.
At the edge…. opened eyes and took back your step. Irregular heart beats but feeling safe.
Ready to fight again.
This all was just a moment, nothing else. If you feel finished at weakness, it is ‘the end’ But if you feel strong this is a ‘new start’.
Perfection- what is the exact definition of perfection?
I don’t know but it may be different for all. Unfortunately, people seek perfection from others while they are not perfect themselves.
Nobody can be perfectly perfect. This is a universal truth but not accepted by all.
Your imperfections make you different from others. You can attempt to do better and it must be done but never lose your confidence because of them.
“Perfection seeks appreciation but imperfection only acceptation.”
You need other’s remark to be perfect but don’t need other’s opinion for your imperfections, you know them all.
Stop being perfect on the standards decided by others. They haven’t been made for you. Talent, ability and potential of every person is different from all.
Hence, engage your mind for making your life beautiful and this world wonderful. Stop blaming others for their imperfections because you are one of them.
Be happy with yourself.
How to live & what to leave?
Life keeps moving on its pace. We try to deal with changing circumstances, suppressed feelings and unexpected events.
Living your life means making your all dreams come true and completing your all responsibilities.
On the other hand, leaving means giving up your dreams, hopes and ambitions. You have accepted the things you are going through.
“Sometimes, leaving something means getting another chance of living through another way.”
You can leave or grab something. Surprisingly we choose a mid-way, that is ‘compromise’.
Why we do compromise?
This Question seems quite difficult because people want more than their needs but when they feel it difficult to get, they decide to leave that work but their mind takes time to accept it.
During this time duration between leaving & accepting this we decide to choose a mid-way because it is said that, “Something is better than nothing.”
At the end,
Live or leave,
Ensure you will achieve.
“I am very sad.”
“I am feeling depressed.”
“I am going to die.”
“I am not happy with my life.”
“Leave me alone.”
These all phrases we often use whenever feel sad but don’t know the reasons behind it.
Sadness is a feeling that you dislike most but can’t stop yourself from being sad.
Being sad is not wrong but it is definitely wrong to be sad every time when you feel something is wrong, unfavourable or uncomfortable.
“Sadness & happiness aren’t absolute choice but can change entire choice.”
We do think about sadness more than happiness and become addicted to overthinking. This is the main reason why we do always talk about our problems.
“You can’t control your problems but can control the amount of attention towards them.”
I am not suggesting you to avoid your problems but equal importance should be given to the happiness & sadness in life.
Do not give your problems a chance to steal your happiness. Try to get rid of this addiction of sadness.
Don’t give up your smile. This is more valuable than your all problems. Make yourself free from the prison of sadness.
Your life would be more beautiful.